WOW EFFECT
Nothing brings things to the fore emotionally between couples like being rejected in the bedroom. You can’t hide who you are when you are in your birthday suit. What you see is what you get.
Getting naked with someone takes risk, especially in the beginning, but also trust if you are going to keep doing it.
Without trust, you have nothing.
Males of the western world (and much of the rest of the planet) have lost the generational masculinity so necessary to their maturational development. (read that again)
Males have a large group bias, solve problems using technological advances, and are practical collaborators who stand shoulder to shoulder with other men to build cultures.
Over two world wars, the plague, the nuclear era and the communist threat, and consequential changes in families, Team Human was deprioritized and the result is over-mothered and under-fathered boys who grow up under the “wow effect.”
Let me explain: If a guy robs a bank one day, and a woman robs the same bank identically the next week, and both are caught, you can bet she’s getting a lesser sentence. That’s the “women are wonderful” effect and it’s real and everywhere
Let me add that at their best women are truly wonderful, but so are men when they are at their best too. WONDERFUL
If you have been in therapy a long time and still struggle, good chance you are involved in a form of Socratic questioning circle jerk. I don’t fault the industry I am part of but it’s the nature of the beast. Most therapists, most male therapists, were over-mothered in the same way as you probably were.
Female therapists are maternal by nature. So let me ask you: can you truly say you understand what it’s like to menstruate? No you cannot. And, similarly, she don’t get male weakness. At all…
It’s the blind leading the blind as they say. There are exceptions, bless them, and they don’t disprove the rule.
Have a look at my friend Christine’s comments wishing me happy birthday last week. She couldn’t bring herself to write the words herself but called me out for not mentioning all three of my children and when I asked her what she meant, this was her answer.
I found a couple more snips of complaints she’s made over the years about men. You can bet she doesn’t see the connection.
Lastly there is an answer from Justine on a friend’s wall about a dad bods post. People thinks she’s refuting the dad bod post but she’s not. She’s complaining about weak men. Like Christine.
That’s what they all complain about. All over the fucking world women at once create weak men and then complain about weak men once they reach adulthood. I hear it EVERY DAY.
So are women to blame? NO. They are being women.
It’s the generational masculinity that men have allowed to be pulled out from under boys that’s missing.
No one is coming to rescue you from this. Not a therapist, not your one male friend, not your mama or your wife or your GF.
It’s only by supporting generational masculinity as taught in the Defender Board of Directors that you will finally ascend to your rightful position as a powerful defender of life.
Failing this, your expendability means less or no pussy.
Because that’s how Team Human works.
Questions? Comments?
Merry Christmas!
True and free…
cw
